May 01, 2005

Sleep Over
FOUND by Bennion
Found in my daughter's backpack
Sahar Naz Faruk in Dhaka, Bangladesh
I think this note is adorable... 'tell her my parents dont take drungs' haha.
+ November 28, 2006 04:04 PM +
sky in manassas
hehe, my parents don't take drugs either. All my friends parents though... they are a different story.
+ December 08, 2006 08:02 PM +
Simona in Chicago
The lengths kids have to go to to be allowed to have a friend sleep over at their house! Very persuasive!
+ December 19, 2006 11:54 AM +
Adam in Olympia, WA
Makes me wish I was having a sleep over.
+ December 24, 2006 01:57 AM +
Jessica in Jeffersonville, IN
I love this note. It reminds me of being little and having to think of as many reasons as possible to validate a sleepover. "My parent's don't take drugs" that is the funniest/cutest thing ever.
+ January 02, 2007 10:58 AM +
Matt in Oklahoma
That would make me think that her parents DID take drugs, but maybe i'm just paraniod.
+ January 04, 2007 10:17 AM +
Chad in Maine
Aww...That's the same type of reasoning I had to do so I could have sleepovers as a kid.
+ January 04, 2007 11:18 PM +
Seejay in SA, Australia
You're right Matt; I questioned the reason behind that inclusion. Does that mean that the parents DO take drugs, or reiterating the fact they DON'T to increase their moral standing. Really makes you wonder the logic of children...
+ January 19, 2007 02:16 AM +
Ian in Calgary, Canada
"Found in daughters backpack" sounds like "Come across while searching daughters backpack"?
+ January 23, 2007 11:20 PM +
Courtney in Mount Morris MI
Did you let her go?
+ January 29, 2007 03:15 PM +
Stu in London, UK
Cripplingly beautiful! Makes me want to be seven again. My mum used to "accidently" find notes wherever I hid them: "I found this while cleaning your room." "It was buried in a box wrapped in newspaper under the floorboards behind the wardrobe Mum!" "I was dusting..."

Did you let her go Bennion?
+ January 30, 2007 09:29 AM +
Vickie in G-boro
I love the line "Tell her my parents don't take drugs." This one is priceless.
+ January 31, 2007 02:28 PM +
ashley in Knoxville
My mom did do drugs, and the house was never clean. I never had anyone stay over. I hope that all your daughter's sleepovers are the best.
+ February 01, 2007 06:59 PM +
Erika in Va
I think that is is really cute, but a little strange that, that is the line to convice her parents to let her stay over.
Hope it worked!
+ February 02, 2007 10:17 AM +
rachel
"my parents don't take drugs..my mom's a clean freak!" that's heartbreaking and adorable. it's like saying tha tyou can assure your parents that you'll be safe...we have a clean house to prove it. it's usuaually the clean, whitewashed, picturesque houses that are trouble anyway..
+ February 02, 2007 04:55 PM +
Sarah in Falmouth, England
Hahaha Stu! My mum used to find EVERYTHING I wrote down, on the condition that I didn't want her to read it. If I told her off for looking through my things she'd just say "My mum told me once, 'If you don't want something to be read, you should never write it down.' You should remember that." Psshh.

As for this note, adorable, I miss being a kid.
+ February 09, 2007 07:05 AM +
Skeptical in Sin City
Hmm...'my parents don't take drugs' AND 'my mom's a neat freak'?!

Red flag!! Red flag!!
+ March 16, 2007 05:02 PM +
debbi in class
wow I would HATE to have whoever found this as a mother. Between the backpack-searching and needing such persuading to let her kid stay over someone's house, I would hate having to grow up there!!
+ March 30, 2007 10:31 AM +
Sara in MO
I think the note's author has an over-protective mother, rather than the other way around. In the mind of a seven year old, everyone is just like your mom, so you would try to convince someone else's parent just like you would your own, ("but Mom, her parent's don't do drugs either, and they are also clean freaks, just like you. So it's okay.")
+ April 11, 2007 11:58 AM +
Sara in MO
I think the note's author has an over-protective mother, rather than the other way around. In the mind of a seven year old, everyone is just like your mom, so you would try to convince someone else's parent just like you would your own, ("but Mom, her parent's don't do drugs either, and they are also clean freaks, just like you. So it's okay.")
+ April 11, 2007 12:01 PM +
Sara in MO
I think the note's author has an over-protective mother, rather than the other way around. In the mind of a seven year old, everyone is just like your mom, so you would try to convince someone else's parent just like you would your own, ("but Mom, her parent's don't do drugs either, and they are also clean freaks, just like you. So it's okay.")
+ April 11, 2007 12:08 PM +
Cami in Tampa
My mom used to ask people if they smoked, had a dog, or had any guns before i could stay the night at their house. this note reminds me of that, its cute.
+ May 03, 2007 01:21 PM +
Meg in Bama
My grandmother used to ask "where do they go to church?" before making a decision on whether or not I could sleep over. That...is sad.
+ May 20, 2007 10:24 PM +
Louise in sheffield uk
I don't see what ther gripe is about the mum going through the kids bag. The kids obviously pretty young, I'm sure alot of parents go through their kids bags to get books out, letters from school, lunch boxes etc out of their bags. I'm pretty sure my mum did, and she wasnt 'snooping'
+ May 27, 2007 06:46 AM +
RBrown in TN
This looks like something I'd find in my daughter's bag. I'm super careful about letting them stay with other people, as I SHOULD be I think! Just because I "met" little Suzy's mom at a PTA meeting for all of 30 seconds doesn't mean I *know* her parents! For all I know they could be psyco, child abusing methheads! I'm just a *little* overprotective! LOL!
+ June 07, 2007 02:19 PM +
Jon in demand
Louise, your mum was "snooping", so was this person, so was everybody's mum, ever. Without exception. It's what parents do.
+ August 30, 2007 05:06 AM +
Melody in IN
If I had kids I would totally snoop through their things. I'd draw the line at reading their journals though. I think.
+ September 27, 2007 03:20 PM +
Norma in Michigan
"My parents don't take drugs" ... that's what you think.
+ October 12, 2007 11:48 AM +
Midlife Crisis in California
If I found this note in my daughter's backpack, I'd suggest she remind her friend to use a possessive pronoun with a gerund.
+ October 13, 2007 06:41 PM +
Your daughter, looking for other stuff in her backpack
WTF, Dad?
+ October 13, 2007 06:45 PM +
Midlife Crisis in California
"Remember to ask your mom about OUR sleeping over." Perhaps this would also be a good time to remind you that "anal retentive" is hypenated if placed before the word it modifies; for instance, "Midlife Crisis has an anal-retentive interest in grammatical minutiae." OK, now you can go to your sleep-over. Have a good time! Don't use heroin, honey!
+ October 13, 2007 07:00 PM +
Your daughter, looking for other stuff in her backpack
Dad, you and Mom are NOT sleeping over too! And your ANAL retentiveness is creepy phyco.

8-)
+ October 13, 2007 08:38 PM +
Melissa working in the community school
I'm not so sure this was written by a seven year old, it's too precocious. This sounds more like something my grade three or fours would write. My first impression of this, coming from working with inner city kids, is that she wouldn't mention about the drugs if it wasn't something she was already self-conscious about. That's not to say her family takes drugs, but perhaps she lives in an area of town where taking drugs is commonplace amongst her neighbours . . .
+ October 24, 2007 07:17 PM +
Emma in Delta
I was thinking the same thing Melissa said. Maybe they live in a drug infested area but the little person comes from a good clean family and is trying to have good decent friends. Cute and kind of sad at the same time.
+ October 26, 2007 05:00 AM +
1 in 2 are great odds
How do you "clean room and toy room" since when is toy a verb?
+ November 07, 2007 10:17 AM +
stalker in your room, watching you
This reminds me of one of my friends when I was that age! Her mum practically interveiwed my mum asking all sorts of questions, particularly if there were any older males in the house. I'm sure she asked if they took drugs, too.
+ November 18, 2007 08:49 AM +
Casey in FL
1,
The person didn't mean that they "toy the room"
they meant that they clean both their bedroom and their toy room.
+ November 24, 2007 12:16 PM +
Reenie in New York
Adorable-I look at this as if the child is PROUD to say that her parent's are drugfree, and that she lives in a clean home !! GOOD FOR HER ! ( Or him ! )
+ November 24, 2007 05:23 PM +
Ken in MO
The line about parents not taking drugs is more of a reflection of the DARE programs and the intensity of the anti-drug emphasis on todays kids. I have been to many DARE graduations with my daughters. Remember school is not teaching Math, Reading and Writing anymore. I liked the note. Reminds me of when my daugthers were that age.
+ November 28, 2007 08:45 PM +
happily in ever after
Do antidepressants count as drugs?
I take 'em AND I'm not a neat freak. And all the kids like to come play with my daughters at my house. Does that mean we're not suitable for a sleepover? :o)
+ December 09, 2007 06:09 PM +
Hands in your backpack, too
Was the finder's daughter the kid who wrote or the kid who received this note? In otherwords, is the drug-free clean-freak the person who sent this in, or not?
+ December 10, 2007 02:29 PM +
e-a in austa
Anyone else see some desperation in the kid's note? CALL ME... Feel sorry for her, maybe no-one is allowed to sleep over at her place because they think her parents are on drugs.
Bennion, enlighten us.
+ December 12, 2007 05:45 AM +
Ruth in Australia
I think the note says tdy room... as in TIDY. (foneticlly reading that is)
+ December 15, 2007 03:13 AM +
lola in los angeles
haha, im about to turn sixteen
and i still have to do my chores before i can have friends over.
+ January 06, 2008 03:37 AM +
"snooping mom" in my daughter's backpack
@Jon-- My daughter is in Kindergarten and I would never get full information if I didn't get papers out of her backpack. Are you honestly trying to say that I'm snooping?? I hate to think what you would say if my poor child missed every field trip, show and tell, snack day, and special event her class had all year (which is exactly what would happen if I didn't "snoop"). Looking at things from your perspective, I'm damned if I do and damned if I don't.
+ January 17, 2008 01:32 PM +

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