August 10, 2003

But Really
FOUND by Jamie and Alan in Winston-Salem, North Carolina
I found this note sloppily folded in half outside a college dorm. The saddest part is the way the writer kind of runs out of steam at the end...
Kathleen in South Carolina
I love this, it so <em>real</em> and it's more like thoughts than what someone would write to another person.
+ November 11, 2006 12:20 PM +
Carolyn in NJ
awh I really like this. It's the confused desperation of someone who just lost his love. I don't think the writer lost steam at the end, I think it's beautiful how the last line is abbreviated.
+ November 23, 2006 09:26 PM +
Nathan in Yuma, AZ
It's really easy to empathize with this author.
+ November 30, 2006 12:46 PM +
Shawn in NJ
He definitely lost steam or something at the end- he didn't write a question mark. Which is, I think, even more heart-wrenching and beautiful.
+ December 03, 2006 12:10 PM +
Logan in Mesa, AZ
Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Ye
+ December 13, 2006 02:29 PM +
scorpi in chapel hill n.c.
Tiny writing ! Where's the magnifier thing ?
+ December 13, 2006 05:17 PM +
Nikki in The UP
I don't think this sounds beautiful, he sounds like he has potential to become a stalker - one of those guys who just won't let her go because he doesn't understand why it ended.
+ January 13, 2007 08:22 PM +
Higgy in Tennessee
I think it's sad. After a break up a lot of people think that..
+ January 14, 2007 12:20 PM +
sarah in in the cottage
Beautiful? I'm not sure why heartbreak becomes so palatable for you people, just because it's a vicarious experience through someone else. Jesus it's not poetry it's some poor guy's private feelings.
+ January 19, 2007 04:23 PM +
AnnMarie in Rainier, WA (Im from Michigan)
I think its hysterically funny for some reason, actuallyit's the handwriting that makes it seem scary, real scary the longer I look at it. Im scared now.
+ January 20, 2007 02:09 PM +
Erin in IN
CREEPTACULAR.
+ February 13, 2007 01:57 PM +
Lily in charge
Sarah... they are all private thoughts and feelings. This site is built on the exploitation of private matters.
+ February 15, 2007 06:17 PM +
Andy in LA
Holy cow. I know the guy who wrote this.
+ February 28, 2007 09:30 PM +
MJ in FL
I think this is incredibly creepy! Imagine getting this note from a guy after breaking up with him... I'd be completely weirded out! I guess I can see it being sad, but more weird than anything!
+ March 02, 2007 08:33 AM +
thatgirl
who writes like that?
+ March 07, 2007 06:02 PM +
lusia in los angeles
this is really scary.
+ March 08, 2007 04:38 PM +
Justin
I wrote this, most likely, during my sophomore year of college.

Anne and I continued dating on-and-off for awhile, and though we're still friends, we don't talk much anymore.

And for everyone wanting to judge,
1. Yes, she was the first big heartbreak. I hadn't really had one like that before or since.
2. I write. I dare you to try to write something artful for someone -anyone- and not sound creepy.
3. I was probably drunk. Being young and foolish.
4. I was nineteen. And very stupid. I'm still pretty stupid, but hey, it is what it is.

A little over a week ago, Andy in LA emailed me, and I just now received it. Wow. I'm just kind of- I'm at a loss.
+ March 09, 2007 12:07 PM +
Justin
I wrote this, most likely, during my sophomore year of college.

Anne and I continued dating on-and-off for awhile, and though we're still friends, we don't talk much anymore.

And for everyone wanting to judge,
1. Yes, she was the first big heartbreak. I hadn't really had one like that before or since.
2. I write. I dare you to try to write something artful for someone -anyone- and not sound creepy.
3. I was probably drunk. Being young and foolish.
4. I was nineteen. And very stupid. I'm still pretty stupid, but hey, it is what it is.

A little over a week ago, Andy in LA emailed me, and I just now received it. Wow. I'm just kind of- I'm at a loss.
+ March 09, 2007 12:15 PM +
Katherine in U.S.A.
This is so sad.
I've felt like this.
More times than I'd like to have felt like this.
+ June 11, 2007 12:56 PM +
Jane in Fort Worth, TX
The handwriting makes me think he's someone who compartamentalizes his life. Maybe that's why it didn't work out. And the tiny size of the writing makes me think he is repressed or can't open up. Painful, really.
+ June 29, 2007 11:33 AM +
your maen in asdc@@!#@
Nikki in The UP said:
I don't think this sounds beautiful, he sounds like he has potential to become a stalker - one of those guys who just won't let her go because he doesn't understand why it ended.

wow your a jerk i feel sorry for the guy
+ July 23, 2007 08:04 PM +
Midlife Crisis in California
These are the lyrics to "We're We Really So Bad Together" by Philip Glass and Elton John.
+ August 02, 2007 09:06 PM +
Midlife Crisis in California
Well, I messed that up, didn't I? It's "were" not "we're." So much for trying to post a comment while someone is explaining something to me.

I meant the joking claim as a compliment: the refrain reminds me of the repetitive minimalism of the composer Philip Glass, and the words, of the final lines of "Goodbye":

I'm sorry I took your time
I am the poem that doesn't rhyme
Just turn back a page
I'll waste away, I'll waste away
I'll waste away, I'll waste away
I'll waste away, I'll waste away

(From "Madman Across the Water" 1971)

There's a deep sadness in this note. I don't think it is creepy at all.
+ August 02, 2007 09:18 PM +
seba in york, uk
i cant understand shit which makes me really intriged
+ August 21, 2007 09:41 PM +
bowie in aus
I've felt like this, too.
+ September 03, 2007 05:22 AM +
Lila in Boonies, MD
This guy is an engineer or mathematician or something. He writes really small and is obsessing because he lacks the answer he wants.
+ September 28, 2007 12:57 PM +
Michelle in cognito
This is really sad - obessive thought pattern.Maybe it's best they broke up.
+ September 29, 2007 04:22 PM +
Jessica in WA
I think the handwriting is interesting. Even though I had to open the little magnifier thing to read it.
I kind of like it actually.
I also think it's kind of interesting that the last word looks sort of spread out. Probably from like tiredness or sadness, but the first thing I thought was, 'OMG HE GOT KIDNAPPED WHILE HE WAS WRITING!' xP
But yeah it is kinda sad.
+ October 13, 2007 06:14 AM +
Pay Attention! in bored at work
Shall we perhaps acknowledge that we have FOUND the writer of this letter? And he's given his thoughts? And, Justin, what's the story with your penmanship?
+ October 15, 2007 01:53 PM +
Night in gale
With all due respect, Crisis, Elton John and Bernie Taupin are the composers of the song you cited.

But Philip Glass would have loved this note!
8-)

(Did you know that and I missed your joke?)
+ October 15, 2007 02:32 PM +
mona lisa in the louvre
Justin, seriously, that was you?
I understand the artful thing. Those words were repeating themselvse in your head, and you tried to convey that in your note. I hope you're ok now. We're all stupid, i think, when it comes to love. When the other one ends things, and you're at a loss to figure out where things went wrong.

+ October 31, 2007 08:21 AM +
you-you in haiti
clearly this is why it didn't work out.
+ November 11, 2007 12:14 PM +
wheres the wiser in island in the sun
love makes you stupid AND crazy crazy crazy crazy crazy yzarc yzarc yzarc yzarc yzarc
+ May 17, 2008 12:59 PM +
swimming in nostalgia
I love this note. It's definitely among my all time favorite Finds. It SO reminds me of something my first "serious" boyfriend might have written toward the end of it all (the end of that nine years of bliss, chaos, passion and fury...) sigh. But yeah, Haro, we really were that bad together. Not good for each other at all. But parts of it sure were FUN, huh?
+ June 11, 2008 10:24 AM +
I get it in a motherly way
@where's the wiser: palindrome! I like it.
This might be something written by my middle child years from now. He's the kid who never wears out, "momomomomomomomom, hey mom, can I get a game, please, please can I get a game, please, please can I get a game, please, please can I get a game, please, please can I get a game, please, please can I get a game, please, please. . ." ad neauseum.
omg, the spam protection is "spell the word 'palindrome' backwards" Emordnilap.
+ September 14, 2008 12:27 PM +

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